tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post5252923286612635042..comments2024-03-14T09:44:56.521-05:00Comments on Mod Vintage Life: But LoveNita Stacyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13833196166679983378noreply@blogger.comBlogger63125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-41189012172214841142011-09-07T20:59:10.003-05:002011-09-07T20:59:10.003-05:00Dearest Nita...
I regularly visit your blog when ...Dearest Nita...<br /><br />I regularly visit your blog when I am able to. I love it! I had not checked in for a few days and was saddened to hear of Newman's passing. My heart goes out to you and I'll hold you close.<br /><br />I truly identify with your loss as I have always had furry children in my life and have had to say farewell to a number over the years. We had two miniature dachshunds (Tintig and Chester) who moved on to their "next life". I will always miss them.<br /><br />At times like these, I always think that it was better that they left us instead of us leaving them. As much as our hearts ache, they could never understand our absence.<br /><br />Just remember that Newman had a wonderful life with you and you are in my thoughts...ElizabethElizabethhttp://quitethecrow.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-41193382340881165722011-09-07T19:59:36.042-05:002011-09-07T19:59:36.042-05:00I'll keep you, your sister and cousin in my pr...I'll keep you, your sister and cousin in my prayers. Please stay strong. <br /><br />:o)Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12256243497022980588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-33297885407015317092011-09-07T14:42:15.148-05:002011-09-07T14:42:15.148-05:00Oh Nita, this post was so open, heartfelt, touchin...Oh Nita, this post was so open, heartfelt, touching, and full of the severe truth of what grieving and healing are all about. You are going through so much right now, thank you for being so open and sharing all...your caring heart will be, and is a blessing and a strength to many, especially those closest to you, but also for those who know you through MVL.<br />Prayers for your whole family, weenies included of course (especially Harvey), and many hugs.<br />May you continue to find comfort anywhere and everywhere you can, and be gifted with the peace that transends all understanding.<br />Much love,<br />xo J~<br /><br />btw- I had had the same thoughts about Sally possibly knowing that there was something wrong with dear Newman...I don't get it, but I've heard of this happening before. Also, an ill animal might be the one who turns on others, owners included. Unusual behaviour is usually a sign of something wrong...it would be so much easier if they could talk. ♥24 Cornershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13630767883910250689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-34284331940360548972011-09-06T18:05:39.904-05:002011-09-06T18:05:39.904-05:00Oh Nita, I haven't stop by in a bit and I am s...Oh Nita, I haven't stop by in a bit and I am so sorry for all your trials of late. I know how it is to lose a pup; I lost my Shadow after 15 years just a few years ago. I remember a co-worker pointed me toward the book, "Dog Heaven," in hopes it would bring me comfort. The poem (which is the book) also appears on this site http://www.dogpages.org.uk/forums/index.php?showtopic=27927<br /><br />I hope your sister heals quickly and your cousin finds strength to continue the battle. Know that you are in my prayers and thoughts.<br />Maryvery merry vintage stylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02529875742433269351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-27078603021699700032011-09-05T18:40:29.791-05:002011-09-05T18:40:29.791-05:00I am so sorry for your loss. I grew up with a lit...I am so sorry for your loss. I grew up with a little red dachshund, Mr. Mulligan, when he passed at 20 it was unbelievably difficult. They make the world so much more special and can be the most constant fixture in one's life. Try to take comfort in knowing that you were a wonderful doggie Mom, and that he had a wonderful life! I love wiener dogs and always look forward to reading your stories! All the best!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-10614345456818737032011-09-05T16:28:56.285-05:002011-09-05T16:28:56.285-05:00Nita dear, Thank you so much for checking in. I h...Nita dear, Thank you so much for checking in. I have been really worried about you, and have kept you close to my heart for days. I can't believe the tests the Lord is putting you through right now, just know that you are strong enough to handle it, and able to help others through it, or he wouldnt burden you with so much. Take care love, we are all here for you :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11936405390121535135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-47061924601694540022011-09-05T15:57:38.530-05:002011-09-05T15:57:38.530-05:00Nita, I'm so glad you updated. I've been t...Nita, I'm so glad you updated. I've been thinking about you an awful lot lately.<br /><br />Please don't feel a need to respond to everyone though. We can receive your heartfelt updates right here. Be kind to yourself and take it a day at a time. It's good to see you back!<br /><br />DonnaFunky Junk Interiorshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14349795167023622107noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-4525386623902554572011-09-05T15:22:25.700-05:002011-09-05T15:22:25.700-05:00Dearest Nita,
So glad you have so much love around...Dearest Nita,<br />So glad you have so much love around you.Whilst writing I have tears in my eyes and my two doggies are making me smile at the same time as they jump up and down trying to cuddle me ...I am so glad all these lovely and supportive mesages of al these lovely bloggers are helping you through your hard times.Consider yourself hugged by all of us , cats , dogs and people here !!!<br />xoxo<br />BeaModern Country Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02876033776851036157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-45653587615611259032011-09-05T11:50:34.083-05:002011-09-05T11:50:34.083-05:00Oh Miss Nita, You have had alot of sadness in your...Oh Miss Nita, You have had alot of sadness in your life as of late. I have read this post and realized I've been so busy with all my crazy life has dealt me, and thought "How could I have missed this?" I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I am praying for you today...and in days to come. I want you to remember that you need to be good to yourself (eating right, getting enough sleep, etc.) so that you will have the strength to be the joy in life that your sister and friend need. As Newman brought joy to you...you can be that joy to them. He was a good teacher-now you can use the knowledge of joy to help them. What a gift he was...and what a gift you are. Please know how sorry I am for your loss...but choose joy my friend. You are needed for a bigger task, and if Newman had his choice to bring joy or mope....I'm guessing it'd be joy. I wish you the very best...I hope you will come up out of this with a smile of remembrance on your face...which will in turn bring Newmans Joy to your sister & friend. Hang in there my friend. We are ALL behind you. :) Hugs, Trish<br />xxTrisha Brink Designhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16390017186592786898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-18319982037259426982011-09-05T11:18:05.663-05:002011-09-05T11:18:05.663-05:00No wonder losing Newman has been so difficult for ...No wonder losing Newman has been so difficult for you, what with all the sadness in your life right now. I pray for your strength and peace.Mary Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11719155857313319690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-65891201373917757962011-09-05T10:23:58.777-05:002011-09-05T10:23:58.777-05:00My prayers are with you and those around you. Your...My prayers are with you and those around you. Your strength is inspiring. PeaceLyndahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01357889638498051381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-84023931759842440692011-09-05T09:47:53.044-05:002011-09-05T09:47:53.044-05:00Dear Nita...I am sorry for all that you're goi...Dear Nita...I am sorry for all that you're going through, with your sweet dog, cousin and sister. sometimes life just does not make sense does it? I pray that during this time you find peace and rest in Him who really loves you and cares so deeply about what you are going through. Cling to Him who is able, I am praying for you.<br />TheresaTheresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09967777532140393661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-27488942240786959932011-09-05T05:09:50.955-05:002011-09-05T05:09:50.955-05:00Hi Nita,
I'm so sorry you've been going th...Hi Nita,<br />I'm so sorry you've been going through such hard times. But you have given us all so much hope with your strength and kind heart. I love the quote that you posted at the beginning, it's so true and I'll carry it with me always. <br />I had my Daisy for 17 years and still expect to see her bounding the corner sometimes. Yesterday I heard "our song" and burst out crying but it's not for sadness it's for love and the happy days we had together. Big kiss to you. xocAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-85342458747095295962011-09-04T22:30:44.141-05:002011-09-04T22:30:44.141-05:00I'm so glad to read that you have found comfor...I'm so glad to read that you have found comfort from your blogging friends. This is a wonderful world where hearts and minds meet. You have such a sensitive soul, dear lady, I wish I was there to give you a real live hug, but because I can't I want you to know that I have prayed for you and know that you are surrounded by love, even if we are people that you have never laid eyes on, but our hearts have met.<br />Great big hugs, CindyCindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05984727854409721822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-6283490364202430382011-09-04T21:27:03.776-05:002011-09-04T21:27:03.776-05:00I'm so relieved that you are back. I don't...I'm so relieved that you are back. I don't even know you but I've worried about you since reading about your beloved Newman. I personally know how those weenies wiggle their way into your heart. Because of your story you have helped our little weenie. She seemed to have an ear infection on and off for a while now. But we kept putting off a visit to the vet. After reading about Newman I made an appointment to take her in. Sure enough she has an infection. Nothing life threatening in comparison but I feel better knowing she won't feel bad for long. So thank you for the reminder to slow down and give them the lovin' they so deserve. I'll keep good thoughts for you and your loved ones who are facing such challenges.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-46662423707533008272011-09-04T21:23:33.413-05:002011-09-04T21:23:33.413-05:00So sorry to hear of all the bad stuff going on in ...So sorry to hear of all the bad stuff going on in your life. When it rains it truly pours! I will keep you and your family and friends in my prayers. I know what it is like to lose a pet that is a family member. Just keep the good memories in your heart and keep looking upward and things will get better!Donna Hollingsworthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18176380502779298217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-50864076104969574852011-09-04T20:35:58.786-05:002011-09-04T20:35:58.786-05:00Lord, I pray in the name of Jesus for beautiful Ni...Lord, I pray in the name of Jesus for beautiful Nita, who brings so much joy to the world through her writing and sharing and caring and friendship. I pray that you will comfort her in her time of sorrow, that you will send your Holy Spirit to remove any feelings of guilt that linger over the loss of sweet Norman, whom she gave a wonderful life and for whom she would have done anything to keep safe and healthy. Please reassure her heart that Norman is in a joyful place where there are no dangers and no pain, and that she will see him again some day. Please continue to surround her with support, both in person and online, and wrap her in your love and assurance that no matter the depths of the losses she suffers, she will always, always have You. The loss of Norman would have been painful no matter when he left her, but the suddenness and way that he went, without warning, and with the additional burden of making her second guess herself, was a cruel and unthinkable tragedy. We know that Norman was not merely a pet, but a precious family member and a source of unconditional love, so please communicate to her that her loss is being felt by her friends and followers around the country, and that so many thoughts are with her. <br /><br />I also pray for healing for Jamie, that you will touch her body and cleanse her of this infection, strengthen her immune system, and surround her with caring professionals that will keep her safe. Convict those that are not doing their jobs and let their actions and inactions lay heavy on their hearts until they ammend their ways and take responsibility for the people in their care. Please give Nita and her family the strength to travel and weather the worry of this situation, and just hold Jamie in your hands at all times, lord. I lift her up to you in Jesus' name and claim healing on her behalf.<br /><br />I also pray for Shelly, God, that you will strengthen her body and soul. I pray for healing of this cancer, for a return of strength to fight this evil disease, and that if it is her time to return to you, that you will give her quality of life for whatever moments on earth remain to her. Allow her to eat, lord, without feeling sick, and give her the energy to enjoy the people and world around her. Make sharp her senses and comfort her loved ones, lord, as they remain strong for her during this frightening and difficut time. Help them carry the burden of their sorrows and send your spirit to reassure them of your love when it seems you may not care. Let them feel the nearness of you when you seem far away and just lay your hands on all of them, father, giving them restful sleep and peaceful dreams.<br /><br />Stay close to Nita, lord, as she navigates the loss and worry and uncertaintly around her. Make haste to help her, oh lord, and pull her closer to you. I don't know if she believes, lord, but I believe enough for both us, and I ask that you protect her from any negative energy and protect her from the depression that is threatening to overtake her. Lead her to the right counselor, lord, and put her on a path away from the darkness. Please also remove any negative feelings she may be struggling with towards Sally, who was just being a dog, and was not responsible for the length of life sweet Norman was given. And above all, please remind her that while no one who lives escapes the tragedies and sufferings of life, but those that have You have the comfort and strength of every corner of heaven to help carry them through. <br /><br />Thank you, lord, for all of the blessings you have in store for Nita, and thank you for the light she brings into this world through her sweet spirit. In Jesus' precious name I pray, amen.Susiedrkins1noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-83213798726500427022011-09-04T19:26:37.215-05:002011-09-04T19:26:37.215-05:00Hi Nita! I came over from Suzanne at Colorado Lady...Hi Nita! I came over from Suzanne at Colorado Lady. She is a dear person and I am going to get to meet her face to face in the next couple weeks! I am so happy I came over here. You have had a full plate of sadness lately! But you write so beautifully. I think I was just meant to meet you! Earlier today I was blogging and trying to get to a friend who won a giveaway I had! I accidentally got on another blog. The lady was getting ready to lose her dad. Pancreatic cancer. I guess God sent me over for whatever He thought I could say! Apparently He had you in mind for me too! I am grieved by the loss of Newman for you. My middle daughter lost her dog Tinkerbell last May 2010. I do not believe I saw such pain ever in my life and I have lost both of my parents and many loved ones. She was attached at the hip with that silly little dog. She made all of our lives wonderful for nearly 14 years. I started blogging as a result of that Tinkerbell. She was diagnosed with liver disease November 2009. Ah pets! They bring such joy and they are as difficult to lose as a human loved one. I wish you much peace and happiness. Memories are always comforting. Never let them go. As for your sis and cousin, My heart aches for them both and I pray. I always pray. I will share a quote I love with you "Be kind to everyone you meet, you never know what kind of battle they are fighting." I was raised with that. Never allowed to laugh or make fun of anyone. Please hug your sister for me and tell you cousin I am praying. Hug her too from me all the way in Colorful Colorado. Hugs AnneAnnesphamilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09355786666073982088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-28697298704741799122011-09-04T19:01:20.535-05:002011-09-04T19:01:20.535-05:00My goodness Nita, no one should have to endure so ...My goodness Nita, no one should have to endure so much at one time as you are! I want you to know you are in my prayers. God loves you and He loves your sister and your cousin and he loved/loves Newman. As Patty said, He will sustain you in times of sorrow. I have been thinking about you so much these past few days. I was so happy to see that you posted today.<br /><br />Big Hugs your way,<br /><br />LeAnnLeAnnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08218036174924581224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-88699925383695818882011-09-04T18:39:11.407-05:002011-09-04T18:39:11.407-05:00Dearest Nita,
I was thrilled to see you post again...Dearest Nita,<br />I was thrilled to see you post again......let your blog be a way to continue to pour out your soul....I am so sorry about your sister and all of it....yet, we all face trials.....I do not know what your feelings are about God, but He can sustain you....you might try reading too.....stories of others who have survived losses....the Bible too....hugs to you! xoxoPattyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17715097308010284279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-42728195148211907442011-09-04T17:39:31.586-05:002011-09-04T17:39:31.586-05:00Nita,
So glad to see a post from you...been thinki...Nita,<br />So glad to see a post from you...been thinking about you every day. It is hard to talk to real life friends about blog friends, they just don't get it.<br />Glad to see you won't let yourself get deep into that black hole, you're too good a person. I just watched "The Curious Case of Benjamin Button" on tv and there was a humming bird in it to symbolize a heavenly spirit. I just wonder if it wasn't a coincidence that a humming bird visited you recently, maybe to test if you were ready for all that was about to happen....you must have passed. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts, stay strong.<br />Your friend,<br />AdamAdam Hazletthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18118324708789702287noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-54061178894945637522011-09-04T14:07:20.496-05:002011-09-04T14:07:20.496-05:00You have more to bear right now then anyone should...You have more to bear right now then anyone should have to. Keeping you and your cousin and sister in my prayers. Just wanted to let you know that you inspired me in a bathroom makeover (not nearly as fab as yours, but better than it would have been without your inspiration!). I want you to know that you brighten people's day with your blog and your delightful ideas. Have faith that in time you will again feel like decorating and celebrating again. <br />Big hugs,<br />Lisa<br />Here is the bathroom link if you want to see it.<br />http://theenchantedoven.blogspot.com/2011/08/enchanted-bathroom.htmlLisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09088398429230683745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-91870741095302185682011-09-04T12:08:10.500-05:002011-09-04T12:08:10.500-05:00Nita,
So relieved to have an update from you. I t...Nita, <br />So relieved to have an update from you. I thought about you so many times last week. Hang in there, you have many pillars of support, and they will provide strength, compassion and courage to get you through such a terribly rough patch. Still thinking of you and praying. <br /><br />~Jill DodsonJill Dodsonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-60916735293546855082011-09-04T11:15:03.852-05:002011-09-04T11:15:03.852-05:00Hi Nita.
Wow. I don't even know what to say o...Hi Nita.<br /><br />Wow. I don't even know what to say or where to begin. <br /><br />I have not been blog visiting as much as I would have liked to with school starting and summer ending... etc. So I missed your last post.<br /><br />You are going through such a tough time. I will say prayers for you and your sister and friend, and Newman too. I just think that God doesn't give us anything we can't handle. I think you are going through hell right now but you will get through it a stronger and better person. <br /><br />My friend told me recently that it is times like these, when we are going through sooooo much, that God is actually "refining" us and making us better despite all the pain and suffering. I have to believe that.<br /><br />I think it is so wonderful that you have shared all of this with all of us. Though it is personal and private, I am the kind of person that in times like these... I need to share the pain and seek out for consoling friends who can help us sort through the pain and bring us comfort.<br /><br />You can get through this. Jamie and Shelley need you and with all of our prayers, it is going to be ok. God has a plan, for each of us. I will pray that He carries you all through these most difficult days ahead.<br /><br />No need to write back to me, Nita.<br />I know you are swamped. Just know you are in my heart and prayers.<br /><br /><br />Huge hugs,<br />Alison<br /><br />May your sweetie Newman rest in peace.Alison @ The Polohousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04158070644111719007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1518721847478228439.post-31733889919956107292011-09-04T10:09:34.051-05:002011-09-04T10:09:34.051-05:00Dear Nita,
I have been sick recently and just cat...Dear Nita,<br /><br />I have been sick recently and just catching up with blogland....it seems you have been handed way more than your share recently and I am sorry about that. I have one cat, the second of the two I will have; I have since been diagnosed as allergic to cats. Both were and have been the emotional mainstay of my life and Newman sounds as if he were yours; to lose him suddenly and at a comparatively young age is very sorrowful. <br /><br />I hope your sister improves and learns to become more consistently assertive about her care. I hope you are blessed with many wonderful moment with your cousin. I wish for you no regrets in these relationships.neora chanahttp://neorachana.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.com